Well hello again everyone…I hope this finds you well and enjoying your week. I was wondering what I was going to blog about this week when a blog fell right into my lap. It is a little gem of good old fashion gay fun!
So about a month/month and a half ago I was at one of my favorite little coffee joints in Erie when I noticed a very good looking guy working behind the counter. I sense that he is gay so I flirt a little. He’s cute, tall, with brown hair, blue eyes etc. At this point I will call him Hot Coffee Guy or HCG as to protect his identity. So (like I have previous mentioned about putting myself out there for dating) I decide to go back at some point and ask him out. I spend the next month randomly stopping in the shop to run into him again. This was a fruitless venture that really made me sick of chai tea. So I give up. A couple of weeks go buy and I attend a benefit at a bar and “accidentally” get drunk and proceed to pass said coffee shop. Low and behold HCG is there, well in my infinite drunk wisdom I decide to investigate without my roommate, who coincidentally was with me. Well my investigation pays off and it’s him….que another week of random coffee stops. Eventually, my persistence pays off and I find myself face to face with him one evening. So I order my coffee and slip him a note, with my cell number, stating my interest in taking him to a movie and dinner. I know I know a note how 9th gradish…cut me some slack I’m not perfect and I was nervous. After a few tense days I get a text from him declining dinner and a movie but inviting me for coffee at the coffee shop. Well, I am pleased at the progress and I go down. We end up spending the next two hours chatting. At one point his roommate stops in and we have what seems like a good time. As we part I express my interest in hoping that he will reconsider my offer. I email him a few days later letting him know I had a good time.
At this point in time I’m thinking that I put the ball in his court letting him decide if he would like to go out when all of a sudden I find out he’s in a relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk about left field. Here I am expressing my interest in him and I meet him out for coffee then suddenly he is dating someone. Not that this is a problem, but the point is is that I was kind excited about the prospects of a nice date with what appeared to be a nice guy. Nice guy aside, I feel like I was led on a bit here. One would think that during our two hour conversation over coffee he might mention the fact that he was interested in someone else, or dating someone at that point in time. I mean I don’t suspect he was bashful considering he talked about his TESTICLES. Yes he discussed his genitalia over coffee!!!!!
All I can think is what a waste of time that adventure was. Also, I’m so over coffee at the moment it isn’t even funny. Talk to me, did I miss any signs. Does declining dinner and a movie but inviting me for coffee count as a way to tell me you’re not interested in going on a date?
You’re thoughts and feelings?
P.S. I paid for his coffee……….
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