Okay so I know I’ve kept you in suspense for the last day regarding my date with Frank on Wednesday. (My prediction regarding the kiss was pretty spot on.) It went really well! So I don’t know about anyone else but I always try to feel out how serious the date is. I try to answer questions like are we going Dutch tonight, or is he going to pay for me, or should I pay for him? It gives me a handle on how serious the date is…you know feel it out. So I get to the theater first and I buy the tickets just to see what happens. He shows up and I tell him that I got tickets for us….P.S. we saw “Fired Up”) and what does he end up doing…giving me a voucher for a ticket. I guess we answered that question…going Dutch. So we get into the movie and it is basically me and Frank and 3 other couples. The movie begins it’s really funny and I learned one thing about Frank he has loud and distinct laugh…he literally LOL’s…he is the physical embodiment of LOL. I’m sure it annoyed some people in the theater but I found it kind of charming. As the movie progressed there was some knee to knee rubbing….just a gesture to let each other know that we are attracted to one another…then there is some finger touching and rubbing. I’m enjoying the whole date at this point. When the movie ends Frank offers to walk me to my car…very gentlemanly of him, and I end up giving him a ride back to his car. We sit for a bit and decide that we are going to have brunch on Saturday together. I am giving him my best come kiss me body language…he is kinda sitting in my car looking a little scared of me…I lean forward even more and we keep making small talk…so finally I take his arm and tell him it would be okay if he kissed me. He says he would like that….he plants two quick, light kisses on my mouth. There is a graze of tongue, his lips are cool, and he tastes like mint….I wasn’t expecting our kiss to be like that at all. I’m so use to a booze fueled make out session that I forgot how nice it is for someone to just kiss you. Frank then says he is glad we are taking it slow. He then asks me to come with him as a guest to a concert on Thursday evening. I accept and then we exchange goodbyes and we drive off.
I think it is fair to say he is interested in me. Especially after I hash out the date last night 😉 So Yesterday at work Cody texts me and our just going out for drinks Friday night turns into dinner and drinks. Our casual date suddenly takes a on a much more official date like feeling. After work I end up at home and I get ready for the concert. Frank picks me up and we are off. Here the concert is of different music faculty around the Erie School District. There aren’t many people that come to see the concert but Frank knows practically all the faculty playing. He introduces me to all of them…there are lovely and very kind to me…but I can see it some of their faces…Frank and his friend who is 20 years younger…are they together? Perhaps I am being to quick to judge or I’m over analyzing the whole situation but it still weighs in the back of my mind. After the concert we grab some coffee and dessert and have a nice conversation. My whole plan is to push the envelope a little bit. No sex of heavy petting but a little more making out. Frank has made it clear he wants to take it slow and I’m okay with that. My plan is to get him to walk me to my door and make out a little bit. After coffee he drives me home (Lauren is out drinking with friends…Score!) I invite him up and he obliges. In fact he ends up coming in. So I give him a tour and we end up on the couch watching the news. We cuddle a little bit..he has his right arm slung over me and my back is on his side…he is rubbing my chest…tweeks my nipple a little bit, he kisses the back of my head (Frank is scoring points like crazy0….this is a little more than I bargained for…so I decide it is time for a little make out session. And we start making out…the kisses are soft and hesitant at first, then they warm up. We are giggling, he tries to tell me he wants to leave but I tell him not to…we keep kissing and I tell him I am texting Lauren to not come home…I reach for my phone but he holds me back, he playfully holds me against him, we are still laughing but I manage to get my phone and get the text out. I quickly turn around and keep kissing him…At this point it is adequately clear that our clothes will stay on and we resist exploring below the belt with our hands. This is purely an above the waist, clothes on, make out session….I still managed to get out of my dress shirt though LOL 😉 Suddenly I start getting texts back I know they are from Lauren…Frank reaches for the phone wanting to know what they say…I laugh cause I am straddling him and I hold my phone out where he can’t reach it…I causally mention look who’s got who now, we are laughing and he still can’t reach. Lauren declares the apt. mine for the next hours…seconds later Lucy (who is out with Lauren) texts me back “Slut.” I’m laughing really hard now and Frank still can’t see the text messages. We end up making out for the next hour. I’ll leave it up to your imagination to what we did, but there was some straddling, grinding, lots of kissing, ear nibbling…all the fun stuff…that ended with me having a hickey. It was such a great make out session…it was hot yet playful…we didn’t do to much yet we did just enough. One of the best parts too was that he would ask me to just hug him and I would just snuggle right into him and nuzzle his chest. I’ve not had many guys just flat out ask me to hug them….it was great!
So now you are up to speed on my dating week. I will see Cody this evening and we will see how that goes. And them I have brunch plans tomorrow with Frank…I’m hoping he will ask me back to his place to cuddle for a bit before I leave this weekend for a house warming party. We will see. Now in terms of the whole age thing….I have thus far enjoyed my time with Frank. I could see us going out more and I am going to sit back and enjoy our time together at the moment. I am going to try and not think about the social ramifications of dating someone who is older than you and just enjoy it…I’m not going to try and define it quite yet. We will see what happens.
Tell me how you guys are doing. What are your plans for the weekend? Any good hook ups recently? Have a lovely weekend everyone and I will have updates for you all on Monday 😉